Always #Keep It Real: New Moon Girls Lead

We Never Photoshop Girls or Women

Media by and about and supportive of real girls is why New Moon Girls exists. That sums up our mission and our work. Our passion and our vision, year in and year out.

It’s why my daughters and I created the print magazine led by the Girls Editorial Board way back in 1992. It’s why we added the safe social network in 2008 and the e-magazine in May.

It’s why we’ve never photoshopped an image of a girl or woman.  NEVER.  And we never will.

Miss Representation, Spark Summit, I Am That Girl and LoveSocial launched the #KeepItReal campaign to tell other magazines–the vast majority of magazines–that they should pledge to publish one feature per issue with non-photoshopped images.

We support the campaign wholeheartedly. Change in mega-media is greatly needed and very welcome. At the same time we don’t want the attention focused on the problem of mega-media to miss the significance that New Moon Girls and a few others have always done the right thing by not photoshopping.

Why have we gone against the industry norm and never photoshopped? Because a photoshopped image weakens the believability of any article it accompanies. I can’t trust an article about “feeling confident” when it includes photos of airbrushed, flawless-looking girls.

Girls can’t trust those articles either. And seeing them in magazine after magazine can sadly make a tween or teen girl question her own accurate perception of reality. The photoshopped images undermine the nurturing and healthy messages that the magazines claim they are putting forward.

See how 12-year-old Ava says it affects her. 

Instead, New Moon Girls uses photos and illustrations of girls as they are in daily life. We know how important it is for girls to see themselves and others like them in the media that influences their thoughts and dreams.

As the Geena Davis Institute for Gender in Media says, “If She Can See It, She Can Be It.”  Of course, when what girls see is photoshopped fake perfection, they can never “be it.” And we don’t want them to!

New Moon Girls helps girls accept and value themselves for who they are–imperfections and all. They CAN be what they see in our publications and on our social network. It’s true and it’s real. Always.

Girls deserve nothing less. And our goal is to give them everything they deserve to get from media: inspiration, support, community, new perspectives, more understanding of the world, articles and images that respect them and give them courage.

See what Ava & I mean by getting a gift copy of our current magazine from the link on our Facebook page. 

Be Body Positive August 7

It’s Body Positive Day. A day to be positive about our bodies. Just typing that, I realize that I need to make a conscious effort to be positive about my body and not just think critically about it.

A HUGE thanks for inventing this day to Connie Sobczak and Elizabeth Scott, LCSW, who founded the non-profit The Body Positive in 1996 because of their shared passion to help people cherish their bodies in order to lead healthier and more meaningful lives.

This is a day to love our bodies as part of ourselves. A day to love our bodies for what they can do and where they can take us. To love our bodies for themselves. A day to free ourselves from judging our reflection in a passing window based on the look or shape of our bodies. A day to consciously not judge others for the look or shape of their bodies. A day to let the word “fat” just be word like any other, not an insult. A day to free ourselves from the downward spiral quest to change our bodies to fit an inhuman look or shape. A day to feed the spark of inner energy that animates us, whatever that is.

A day to do things differently that I can continue tomorrow and the next day. One Body Positive day at a time.

I’m being body positive today by writing this quick post and doing some other work for a couple projects–completing them will feel great. Then I’m getting outside–where it’s finally cooler–and taking a walk by the Mississippi, listening to the flowing water and looking at the lush vegetation from this very rainy summer. Later I’m going to a play with friends at the Fringe Festival. After the play we’ll have a delicious dinner and visit while we eat.

What are you doing today to be body positive? Watch this short video to see what others are doing. Then please share so we can inspire each other – and spread the word!

Fat Stigma Weighs on Girls

It’s a crazy world that teaches girls to fear fat as much as they worry about their mom or dad dying. That’s the world we’re raising our girls in.

And now, with the media and health industry frenzy about rising rates of child obesity, the fat stigma messages girls get are weighing more and more heavily on both their physical and psychological health.

What’s a caring parent, grandparent, teacher, coach or scout leader to do?  First, let’s define Fat Stigma. I like this definition from Kendra of Voice in Recovery:

Well, weight stigma is bullying, teasing, negative body language, harsh comments, discrimination, or prejudice based upon a person’s body size.

Photo by nothingbutanapron.com

It doesn’t apply only to prejudice against fatness, but that’s by far the most powerful weight stigma in the U.S. and other westernized cultures. The negative power of that stigma falls more on females than on males because females are still judged by society much more on our appearance than on our accomplishments, actions or personal qualities.

To feel the stigma’s power, what’s your immediate response to this photo? My knee-jerk response is “Yuck, fat.” All my life I’ve been taught by our culture that fat, whether in food or human beings,  is unhealthy, unpleasant and ugly. I’ve been taught that the word fat is an insult, no matter what I use it to describe. I’ve been taught to feel shame and like I’m a failure when I hear or think the word fat.

I want to change my knee-jerk reaction. To fight the stigma I need to be aware of my bias. I need to  choose to be open-minded and counter my blind prejudice by remembering that our bodies need fat to be healthy. That fat is an essential part of all animals and plants. Fat in and of itself is NOT evil or insulting!

These are the counter-messages I want to embed in my mind. I say the word over and over in my head: fat, fat, fat, fat, fat, fat, fat! It’s just a word. What counter-messages do you need to embed?

Stay tuned for more thoughts on this topic in the next couple months as a lead up to Weight Stigma Awareness Week September 26-30, 2011 – lots of excellent resources will be launched that week by the Binge Eating Disorder Association.

Check out other great perspectives on how to fight the harm of weight stigma at the Weight Stigma Blog Carnival.

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